A NOTE FROM SALLY KAPLAN, PROGRAM DIRECTOR
In his best-selling book Being Mortal, Atul Gawande urges us “to refashion our institutions, our culture, and our conversations in ways that transform the possibilities for the last chapters of everyone’s lives.” In response, a new advance care planning initiative has been launched in the Jewish community of New York to enable individuals to think about, plan for, and take steps to ensure that when the time comes, their end of life wishes will be respected and honored.
What Matters: Caring Conversations About End of Life is a collaboration between the Marlene Meyerson JCC Manhattan, The New Jewish Home, and the Center for Pastoral Education at the Jewish Theological Seminary, made possible by our founder, funder, and partner, Plaza Jewish Community Chapel, Inc. and support from UJA-Federation of New York. This initiative builds upon Respecting Choices, a program with proven success nationwide. In La Crosse, WI, where Respecting Choices began, 96 percent of the residents have an advance care plan; the national average is 25 percent.
This effort aims to heighten awareness about the importance of completing advance care directives and enable individuals to thoughtfully consider and document their end of life preferences—with opportunities to engage Jewish values as part of the process. Trained and certified facilitators walk individuals through the process and encourage them to discuss their wishes with family members, loved ones, and physicians.
Such conversations are already taking place at 15 program sites—11 synagogues, one community center, one communal organization, a rabbinical seminary, and a nursing home. Together, we’re building a more caring and compassionate New York Jewish community.
If you wish to learn more or to schedule a conversation about advance care planning, contact us at firstname.lastname@example.org.
We will engage New Yorkers in compassionate, value-driven conversations about advance care planning, so they may live with the comfort of knowing their choices will be honored by loved ones and health care professionals.
Guided by Jewish values, we envision a community that embraces advance care planning as a natural part of life, where end of life decisions are known, respected, and honored.
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Made possible by our founder, funder, and partner, Plaza Jewish Community Chapel, Inc., and support from UJA-Federation of New York.